DDDela`s Musings

  War is chaos, plain and simple. You never really know what’s coming next. But right in the middle of all that mess, you’ll find the paratroopers . These are people built out of courage, discipline, and that kind of stubborn resolve that just doesn’t quit. The second they jump out of those planes, everything gets real. They drop into the unknown, trusting their training, their instincts, and this deep sense of duty that keeps them moving forward. Every jump is a wild rush - adrenaline pumping, enemy lines below, danger everywhere - and somehow, through it all, they hold on to this quiet hope they’ll make it back to the people waiting for them. “ The Paratrooper ” isn’t just another war story. It’s a salute to the guts and grit of folks who volunteer for something bigger than themselves. The story throws you right into the thick of it: the mental games, the physical exhaustion, the trust and friendship that only come from facing the worst together, and the tough choices made for ...

  “Don’t just be an engineer - be an evolving force of innovation, constantly upskilled, or someone more driven will take your place.” - Emmanuel Apetsi Unassuming, and a budding engineer, Emmanuel Apetsi proves that the biggest punch can come from the smallest frame. While most people are fast asleep, he’s wide awake, grinding through the night, akin to Longfellow ’s widely publicized principle of “…toiling upwards in the night”. Forget poetic daydreams - he’s living the hard, honest hustle, smashing through limits that others don’t even see. He taught himself how to code, and by 18, he’d already closed his first six-figure software deal with an international tech company. Just two years later, he landed another big one after building and launching a social media platform that genuinely stands out; something designed to connect and spark Africa’s brightest minds. When it comes to features and fresh ideas, his platform goes head-to-head with giants like Facebook and LinkedIn. ...

  As the calendar turns to 2026, the energy of a fresh start is undeniable. A truly great year isn’t built on luck; it’s the result of deliberate choices and strategic habits. Instead of vague resolutions, focus on mastering key behaviors that lay the foundation for sustainable success, deeper relationships, and profound personal growth. Here are 12 essential things you must do to ensure 2026 is your most impactful year yet:   1. Define Your North Star (The “Why”) Before setting goals, establish the core values and vision that will guide all your choices. Ask yourself: “What does a successful life look like to me, personally?” Your North Star provides clarity, helping you say “no” to distractions and focus on activities that truly move you toward your highest aspirations.   2. Prioritize Energy Over Time We often focus on time management, but energy management is the real key to productivity. Identify the activities, people, and environments that drain you...

  Christmas is more than just carols, lights, and presents. For John and Charles Wesley ; the dynamic duo behind the Methodist movement ; it was a powerful, practical, and deeply spiritual call to action. They didn't just celebrate a birthday; they embraced an entire spiritual revolution rooted in humility, compassion, and community.   Their approach to Christmas combined deep theological insight with a commitment to living out Christ’s love in the real world. Think of them as the original advocates for “keeping Christ in Christmas,” but with a focus on service above all else.   The Heart of the Matter: Why Jesus' Birth Was Everything For John Wesley , the founder of Methodism , Christmas was the lynchpin of the Christian story. He saw the Incarnation; God becoming human in Jesus Christ; as the ultimate act of love and humility.   John Wesley’s Insight: Christmas wasn’t just about a baby in a manger; it was God saying, “I want to be close to you.” It’s...